Things about Relationships I wish someone told me about


  1. Magnus Leone

    Magnus Leone3 horas atrás

    2:20 how tf do you wumbo someone

  2. Prabhav Vuttaluru

    Prabhav Vuttaluru3 horas atrás

    That person who apologizes for everything because of being in a toxic friendship with too long with someone who only used them to only ditch them when they got “popular”... *Red Flag* Yeah... that happens sometimes

  3. Soapy Thing

    Soapy Thing3 horas atrás

    7:21 YASS QUEEN

  4. Galaxy Wolf

    Galaxy Wolf4 horas atrás

    1 word Narcissist

  5. Fossii Bossii

    Fossii Bossii5 horas atrás

    THIS VIDEO KINDA MADE ME THINK OF MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY BOYFRIEND AND I FEEL ATTACKED also if anyone is reading this, please talk to me I honestly don't know what to do, after watching this video I feel that I might be in a toxic relationship and I really don't know what to do, because I don't wanna break up with him right before his birthday Wich is coming up really soon, because that would be cruel, and everyone thinks we're like the perfect couple or something, but this video hit wayy to close to home and I'm not really sure how to end it. And I'm scared to. Also I think I like girls, so someone please for the love of God help me. I'm litteraly begging.

  6. Sad Baguette

    Sad Baguette6 horas atrás

    *If you find a toxic person, spray them with a hose*

  7. 7km7 animaljam

    7km7 animaljam7 horas atrás

    What about a parent?

  8. Gannon_minecraft 1768

    Gannon_minecraft 17687 horas atrás

    This is the first vid of u i saw and its awsome i subed p.s the reson i saw this beacuse of your friend odd ones out but i love your channle

  9. Angela Loucks

    Angela Loucks7 horas atrás

    Thanks for this vid Jaiden!

  10. BTD Master

    BTD Master8 horas atrás


  11. Atuffies Stuffies

    Atuffies Stuffies10 horas atrás

    7:22 is that Toga?

  12. Elizabeth Alviso

    Elizabeth Alviso11 horas atrás

    Your awesome at talking about stuff like this I made a whole new playlist just for this and it’s only your videos

  13. Alex Alcantar

    Alex Alcantar11 horas atrás

    6:25 anyone else want this Jaiden to appear more?

  14. Quiptipt Nyqtphimq

    Quiptipt Nyqtphimq11 horas atrás

    8:06 Holy shit, is that a motherFUCKING JOJO REFERENCE?!

  15. ItsEmma! Don’t change it

    ItsEmma! Don’t change it12 horas atrás

    I have a friend who shows red flags 🚩 and when I would ask her she would say it’s my Fault and I could see she was taking A vantage of me and she would bully me and I don’t know how to tell her i don’t wanna be her friend I really need help but I told my mom and she said that I just have to tell her and I did and now she tells everyone not to be my friend but I made more friends And she took away my friends and she said “ I don’t care if you cry “ and know She has no friends

  16. DatPanda

    DatPanda13 horas atrás

    Back then in fourth grade, everyone would ask me to do their work and I for some reason always do it. I never really had any friends cause I felt like everyone in my fourth grade class well, was mean. Until fifth grade, I actually had friends.

  17. Foxy Rose

    Foxy Rose13 horas atrás

    Do you watch BNHA because one of them looked like toga

  18. Kaitlin Frasier

    Kaitlin Frasier14 horas atrás

    2:45 those sound effects are awesome ❤

  19. alph blind

    alph blind14 horas atrás

    Bro.....ur super helpfull , thank u man ùvú ily jaiden animation

  20. nem tudom

    nem tudom16 horas atrás

    *S* *L* *A* *M*

  21. mai khac hai

    mai khac hai17 horas atrás

    now this it a usefull advice im appreciate it help my clean mine mind

  22. Sybato

    Sybato18 horas atrás

    "Don't let them forcefully shove their junk on you" Also known as sexual assault

  23. GL1TCH 404

    GL1TCH 40421 hora atrás

    Sr.pelo ??? 0:14

  24. The Minecraft crazy girl

    The Minecraft crazy girl23 horas atrás

    I did D.A.R.E And I saw the D.A.R.E lion :3

  25. LoveSickCow

    LoveSickCowDia atrás

    I am really glad I watched this...I honestly think for a while now I have been being that "manipulative boyfriend" you where talking about in this video and I honestly never realized I was. I am a little messed up about myself now, especially since a youtube video had to wake me up to this, I should have gotten this under control a long time ago by myself. I will do everything I can to make this right though, I want to marry the woman I am with but not if I am causing the relationship to be toxic. Thank you Jaiden

  26. Fried Tomato

    Fried TomatoDia atrás

    And this is why I’m single even though I don’t have choice 😐

  27. kollin sok

    kollin sokDia atrás

    One hundo all the way 👍

  28. Lifi Gacha

    Lifi GachaDia atrás

    I used to be in a toxic relationship. My Ex (who I am still friends with) always said he was gonna kill himself if I ignored him for too long. One day I just felt very sad and I wanted to kill myself, not because of him. We got into a fight when we broke up because I told him we were in an abusive relationship. He told me it wasn't, and I told him about him saying to me that he was going to kill himself if I didn't talk to him, he then said that I was going to kill myself because he kept ignoring me, so I said no, that was when I wanted to only kill myself due to sadness, not about you. He then started to say again he was gonna kill himself. He didn't, but we broke up and I blocked him because he kept saying he was gonna from his 4 different phone numbers. Thanks for reading, if you did.

  29. Kaylen Hancock

    Kaylen HancockDia atrás

    Great video and like your animation.

  30. ツTheDudDude

    ツTheDudDudeDia atrás

    Well damn, I didn’t expect jaiden to say *shi -*

  31. CryingSkies雨雲

    CryingSkies雨雲Dia atrás

    7:23 Toga?

  32. Galaxy Wolfie Gamer freak

    Galaxy Wolfie Gamer freakDia atrás

    rude person: * turns back * other person: * sits on invisible bench *

  33. Avrian Burritt

    Avrian BurrittDia atrás


  34. CesarSalad YT

    CesarSalad YTDia atrás

    This video got me through something and I just wanted to say thank you☺️

  35. Roblox Castem

    Roblox CastemDia atrás

    Me : That thing is growing horns and stuff! My friends: What thing?! Me Over there! My friends: That's our teacher.. Me: Oh..

  36. Roblox Castem

    Roblox CastemDia atrás

    My sister: Puts back a piece of trash from my pile Me: Shoves all my trash to her and watches Jadien Animations Me also: Life is okay. Oof, but nice video Xd

  37. Emma Gracia

    Emma GraciaDia atrás

    Tip to make sure your not a being a jerk when in fight or something Reread or read to someone else what you and the other person said This helped me make sure I didn’t say something wrong If you say something wrong and then someone starts acting toxic then they could use that against you so it’s best if you just say sorry

  38. Teletubbíe Mõçhã

    Teletubbíe MõçhãDia atrás

    7:22 IS THAT TOGA I SEE?

  39. AubTubeTV gaylor

    AubTubeTV gaylorDia atrás

    Me:*calls police* Police:911 what’s your emergency? Me:jaiden said a bad word Police:RED FLAG!!!!

  40. Crystal De FoX

    Crystal De FoXDia atrás

    7:22 HIMIKO TOGA!?!

  41. Blythe Dobbs

    Blythe DobbsDia atrás

    thank you

  42. Abigail Kievit

    Abigail KievitDia atrás

    Had a relationship like that. Can totally relate. Subscribed today!!!

  43. Someone Unknown

    Someone UnknownDia atrás

    Yay! Happy animations that dive headfirst into the intricacies of the human heart!

  44. Alertacobra 12

    Alertacobra 12Dia atrás

    "some people are nice" *Seconds later* "-some people have knifes and no emotional response"

  45. natkatmac

    natkatmacDia atrás

    "Mental illness does not negate a person's responsibility to maintain a healthy relationship" *P R A I S E*

  46. Gregoria Payano

    Gregoria PayanoDia atrás

    7:20 Me:love that it's toga and that means that she watch MHA which makes me happy 😆😆

  47. WeNdY DaTa

    WeNdY DaTaDia atrás

    Idk why but I want James and Jaiden to date :D

  48. Veronica Arnautov

    Veronica ArnautovDia atrás

    Yooo is that Himiko Toga? I mean it's accurate though lmaoo HAHA IM GONNA WAKE UP AND BE EMOTIONALLY MANIPULATIVE

  49. jesus cadena

    jesus cadenaDia atrás

    Santa: but I'm santa Jaiden:ok grey erea

  50. meliodas

    meliodasDia atrás

    I think i see a my hero academia character

  51. Awesome Doofy

    Awesome DoofyDia atrás

    People: want some drugs? Me: Im allergic to drugs

  52. Snehansh Nanda

    Snehansh NandaDia atrás

    Jaiden: 7:53 6-year-olds: but I need my parents

  53. Luna Gacha :3

    Luna Gacha :3Dia atrás

    This is for My Hero Academia fans: Deku thinks of bakugou as a awesome person even if bakugou bullies him for being quirkless

  54. a will to live

    a will to liveDia atrás

    7:21 Toga

  55. Skyhopper24

    Skyhopper24Dia atrás

    Are my other friends gonna do it? EVERYBODY DO THE FLOP *BANG*

  56. Strike Doom

    Strike DoomDia atrás

    Yes your kids are not your problem

  57. Strike Doom

    Strike Doom15 horas atrás

    @Ghost Arrow Fire! You heard me

  58. Ghost Arrow Fire!

    Ghost Arrow Fire!21 hora atrás


  59. Le Crovidae

    Le CrovidaeDia atrás

    Less swears kthx.

  60. Lucy Bancroft

    Lucy BancroftDia atrás

    You're a wonderful person and I respect you so much.

  61. Temuulen BE

    Temuulen BEDia atrás

    So after watching this video, all the factors of a bad relationship or “friendship” in my case matched up with this. Don’t worry I’m not friends with him anymore but still, if you feel like you are in a bad relationship or friendship, then just stop contacting them and move on

  62. Likvsud R

    Likvsud RDia atrás

    I rlly hope that my bff is not toxic

  63. Angela Moonlight

    Angela MoonlightDia atrás

    This is weird because when I first watched the video, I didn't see the dolphin thingy. I don't know how I don't remember that! 😂😂

  64. Weston Flame

    Weston FlameDia atrás

    Wish I had this video when I was in high school...

  65. VA

    VADia atrás

    Jaiden; The Wise

  66. The ice cream Masters

    The ice cream MastersDia atrás

    I went through this with my boyfriend it hart but I got over it😢🙂

  67. City Morgue 666

    City Morgue 666Dia atrás


  68. Elnedin Lowqvist

    Elnedin LowqvistDia atrás

    Jaiden you just helpt mi whit my life and its real you just helpt mi and love you as my best youtuber 😄

  69. Carito :D

    Carito :DDia atrás

    Gotta admit, this really helped me. I had this one friend who kept telling me how depressed he was, and how everyone he knew had left him. It was really hard to let him know that I was not ok with the way he acted with me, and as of today, we are not talking anymore. It might've been hard, but it was for the best.

  70. Elena Alejandro

    Elena AlejandroDia atrás



    NAME NOTFOUNDDia atrás

    damn. where was this video 2 years ago when i was trying to get out of a really bad relationship with, who i thought, was the most wonderful person i ever met that turned into the most toxic and abusive relationship iver ever had

  72. soda can

    soda canDia atrás

    i wish i could send this to one of my difficult friends, but she’s too scary and hdjdcjsj

  73. BloomingWolf 14

    BloomingWolf 14Dia atrás

    7:22 Me(an Mha fan):Omg is that Toga-

  74. Varn

    VarnDia atrás

    Wow Jaden made a video on my entire last relationship 😅

  75. FrostPlayz

    FrostPlayzDia atrás


  76. C L O W N S A N I T Y

    C L O W N S A N I T YDia atrás

    "You are not responsible for another person's happyness" You ear that son? Now gtfo of my house!

  77. Menntes

    MenntesDia atrás

    *got damn chad*

  78. Caden Meow

    Caden MeowDia atrás

    So I stop helping my friend with depression?

  79. Ghost Arrow Fire!

    Ghost Arrow Fire!21 hora atrás

    I mean don't tell him or her the wrong things. Yes do help. But it shouldn't be ur responsibility.

  80. Leo Legendary

    Leo LegendaryDia atrás

    Yes and no. This video makes it seem like identifying the behaviour is all the hard work involved in these situations. Real life situations are much much more complicated. You cutting relationships left and right for "red flags" is great and all but sometimes you might have misunderstood the situation. If it was so easy everybody would do it. For example, the cocaine from the video. Well YEAH! That is obvious! But what about if one of your friends smokes weed for medical reasons? Not so clean cut now. What if he wants to share it with you guys just this once? It is wrong but there are nuances to the situation. Still, drugs are somehow more defined. Let's imagine a romantic relationship, though. This is where shit hits the fan. You are saying that everyone should build a support circle of friends. This can backfire. Imagine you get a girlfriend and everything is great. Until 6 months later you screw up something. During the fight she goes to her friends and starts to tell them how bad you are. Then you appologise because you are a grown up and have seen the errors in your ways. HOWEVER! The friends of your girlfriend will mostly remember the negative. You know what happens next time you screw up? That past negative is going to be used as a "support" against you. Now the question becomes, how many times you can screw up before her support group kicks you out. Also friends and family talk a lot about what is normal to them. If there is no questioning on their values - BAD INFLUENCE! The instance where your boyfriend tells you that your friends are childish and does not like certain characteristics of theirs is the perfect example of how he might really love you and wants to point out their mistakes and NOT control you. So what now? Your guy can't have a say about how bad your other relationships are to you? Oh boy we are going into a great relationship with a great person but your other toxic relationships will ruin it! So how do we know which one is the toxic one!? You don't! This is why it is not so black and white. Both sides might want the best for you and tell you. Neither of them are toxic on their own. Clashing together - toxic. Using your ecosystem example would be: One side provides peaceful animals to your ecosystem. The other provides beautiful plants to your ecosystem. Yeah great, but the animals start eating the plants. So which one is toxic?

  81. Bas Meek

    Bas MeekDia atrás

    Jaiden, this was an amazing video. I have also been in a very manipulative relationship (it was the 'or else I'm gonna hurt myself' relationship) and this has really cleared up the things about it that I didn't know about yet. Thanks so much! Amazing content.

  82. Cassidy Hodson

    Cassidy HodsonDia atrás

    Katie Morgan ????? That's my friend that's years older than me omg what the heck

  83. Tyler Curtis

    Tyler CurtisDia atrás

    Thank you for the advice Jaiden!

  84. Layla Whiteside

    Layla WhitesideDia atrás

    I have been in the same position before, and it sucks!

  85. TheNerdyUnicorn

    TheNerdyUnicornDia atrás

    7:22 Is that a Toga I see?

  86. Lost soul Gazer

    Lost soul Gazer2 dias atrás

    * thinks on the questions* * Compare's them to each friend* ....this why I only have two friends I would trust my life for. For me they're are three sections you could fall on in my positive spectrum. I-know-you-but-we-don't-know-each-other-well-enough-to-be-buds-but-we-talk-anyway-but-it's-awkward, friends, practically family. Only two are like my sisters I wish I could have. But majority are in the friend spectrum or I'm just not close period. I tend to be distant to most of them, they're all kinda crazy.

  87. Ashley Bacus

    Ashley Bacus2 dias atrás

    This talk was helpful

  88. Xbox g4mer

    Xbox g4mer2 dias atrás

    I feel like my friends treat everyone like Santa Clause

  89. Ceceliacoolbean C

    Ceceliacoolbean C2 dias atrás

    She should be a therapist

  90. ATfliper

    ATfliper2 dias atrás

    ...was that toga? answer, yes.

  91. The stickbot Guys

    The stickbot Guys2 dias atrás

    Petting ur dog RED FLAG🚩🚩🚩🚩

  92. Jamir Butts

    Jamir Butts2 dias atrás

    Jaiden what do you think about sans jaiden

  93. Stacey Wang

    Stacey Wang2 dias atrás

    This is literally the best video ever, and I'm happy I ended the friendship with my toxic (and I mean TOXIC) "bsf"

  94. FEED ME

    FEED ME2 dias atrás

    The person that I think that I may have a bad relationship with I’m really attached to. I know and I took in to perspective what you said.. and I confronted the person about it and they apologised in stuff but the cycle keeps repeating. They keep snapping at me but in a really bad way (not physical but ya know they say really harsh things that really damage my self esteem) and then I confront them, they apologise ... then the same thing happens all over again! I know ur not super professional or anything but any tips?

  95. It'sMeAbbey

    It'sMeAbbey2 dias atrás

    Someone: **wakes up** Haha I'm gonna be super manipulative today👏👏🤘✌👍😁 Me: *Die Plz.* *...Like rn.*

  96. Lily Love

    Lily Love2 dias atrás

    Jaden:🤬👿 BRreporter:RED FLAG🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔⛔🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚫🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

  97. Nicholas Deshong

    Nicholas Deshong2 dias atrás

    Inspiring AF

  98. Pick Corn

    Pick Corn2 dias atrás


  99. Presto702

    Presto7022 dias atrás

    The small ecosystem is the best way Ive ever seen this be explained. Perfect video!

  100. PurE DemOn

    PurE DemOn2 dias atrás

    "Monsters are Made, not Born. Nobody is Evil by Choice." -Me 2013. Jaiden is right, you have to take care of yourself. But not to the extent that you become the asshole Jaiden is warning you to stay away from. Self-care is good path to walk, but it quickly becomes Self-fulfillment or Selfishness. I don't want to get into it, but there are a lot of things in this video that are red flags to me. I know Jaiden means well, but nearly ALL of the advice she gives in this video I can see being taken too far. I say I can see it, because it has happened to me. And the reminder of how these people i once called friends used similar words of advice to justify their assholeishness is actually making me feel sick. Please, random anon reading this comment, don't be like the people that hurt me by taking a good thing so far it because toxic.

  101. Feli Longworth

    Feli Longworth2 dias atrás

    My sister has a boyfriend and I’m really not sure to trust him or not, he seems really nice but some of the text messages they send each other are inappropriate and when they get into arguments she now always blames herself, always. She thinks he’s perfect and I’m even more scared because she’ll do everything with him but won’t do anything with me or my parents anymore. However he makes her really happy and he does seem generally nice, I just don’t really know but yeahhhh That’s that :3

  102. Kadence Aycock

    Kadence Aycock2 dias atrás

    You helped me break off a toxic relationship. I can’t thank you enough!!

  103. Lime Diamond

    Lime Diamond2 dias atrás

    I think I’m a good friend. Once I literally asked all of my friends if I was a toxic friend after I watched a single video on toxic friends.